i don't wanna sound like a slut butt i think it is sooo sexy when a guy holds u just right. some guys can't even dance, but they got a natural feel about them. For us gurls.... its the hips!!!! try isolations! Take jazz classes, when the teachers warm up especially pay attention 2 the hips!

If ur hips r whack try body rolls, u can get all crazy and sexy wit 'em or be subtle with smaller moves!

No matter what, have fun!

Okay im a HALF white girl lol and im not real sure how to do the booty row but the funny thing is i can do almost everything else but that! lol got ne suggestions?

How do you dance to r'n'b on your own in a club? what do you do with arms?

Sometimes I'm grinding with a chick and I get a little wood going on. Should I back off or do girls mind that? Preferred?

well u not going 2 get info how 2 freak dance and grind on websites its comes naturally or watch tha videos and go. iz u white or black.cuz a black gurls know how 2 dance trust me cuz im black and mine came naturally grinding and shit.well if u white hang around black folks they will teach u .go 2 a crunk party

if i don't like the guy lol...i get grossed out......

listen everyone im an ididot when it comes to dancing i need some help...everytime a girl comes to dance with me i dont know what to do...say their butt is to you and their just shaking what do i do? if you wanna see my bad skills come to the club on fridays in detroit and youll see

i cant dance .. everytime a girl comes up to me i choke yo i need some help. when a girl puts her butt right up to you and she starts swinginng waht do i do... im horrible

hey man just go with the flow
i'd be honored if some hot chick puts her butt on u with the intentions of grinding
its up to u what to do with your hands. depending on ur age, put your hands on her waist or on the very top of her legs or her hips, whatever floats ur boat. then what i do is just follow her.
try it, and just act natural
Ryan

i think it's hot when the guy gets a boner. you know he's paying attention then. HAHA.. i mean christ what if the whole time the guy never gets one? guys are like walking boners, and grinding is f'n sexy.

yo ryan i did what you said and it worked man but listen this is the weird part for all the guys and the grls....what if theres a girl on each side of you doin it ??? lol it happened and i couldnt handle it :(

man u must be a pimp. you know, grinding usually doesn't happen in groups around where i am. you know, when 2 people are grinding, other people just sorta leave them alone. idunno maybe ur older than me (im 15) and grinding is done a little differently in your age group and ur location but idunno what to say for that one. maybe you set your own movement and the girls will just follow u but if u tried to follow both of them and they were movin differently i c that would be difficult. honestly other than telling you to maybe just set ur own movement and hope they follow u, i dunno what would work. try something dont be afraid to be different
good luck
ryan
ps i was dancing last friday and the girl noticed i had a boner and she told people which was weird and more so the people made fun of me... which was very very weird. i dont feel embarrassed or anything it was just weird... dont girls want to feel that ur into them? idunno... confused...

i accidentally posted the same thing twice so i edited the second one into this.. nothing much to say... have a nice day everyone

yes, normal freak-dancing girls want to feel that the guy is into them. i mean c'mon the girls are doing most of the work and guys usually just follow.. so its good to know your moves are turning him on. don't worry about poppin some wood... if she made fun of you about it then she shouldn't be freak dancing.

yo guys last night der was a dance and i was grinding and her pants were wet it was kind of grose... it was prob water but say something happens lik that do i leave or do i stay?

hahahahaha!!! I can't stop laughing over the last comment posted. Depending on how wet she her pants were, she was probably either really turned on, she was sweating a lot, or she had an accident on the dance floor. Hahahaha!!!

Prodigy
Funkacial Maniacs

hahaha well thinking logically I would say it was sweat - she was in pants and it gets hot as hell depending on how many people are there. but that sure is a lot of sweating.. i doubt it was because she was that turned on LOL. yeah i guess it could have been water... but if something like that happens, and it grosses you out, just dance with someone else that you can enjoy

im in highschool and our school has alot of dances.. so we grind alot and stuff but one time i got a little wood:$ this girl thought i wanted to do something:S but i didnt so she told everybody and they all started saying stuff what do i do if i get that? and dont girls like it?

what's up with you and the wood thing. LOL

All you have to do is control your big booty. If you have a big ol' booty its so easy and fun and you have to have rhythm and attitude. Become a flirt and then feel the music and its all good. But shake and vibrate yo' booty and then the hips and thigh have a big contribution to it. You'll get gurl dont worry.

once again... anyone that makes fun because a guy gets some wood during freak dancing should NOT be freak dancing in the first place. it's very sexual [usually like having sex with clothes on...] and if a guy never gets turned on by it i would say there's something wrong. so don't worry about it. they're immature. most guys do and depending on the girl it's a good sign because she knows she's weerkin it!

alright let me tell you first just roll your body real slow u know what this might sound crazy but practice on a wall and then just roll and start to stick ya booty out and just roll and grind on the wall. just telling how it works cause i did it before i know how to bellydance,pop lock, harlem shake, chicken head like on videos, pop, do freak dancing and grinding, heel toe and the reverse heel toe. salsa and some other things. so if ya need help with anything else just e-mail me

hey dancer1588, do you have any more tips?

Ok I can do like every thing except vibrate. Does nebody have tips that might help?