So 2 weeks ago I relocated to Arizona after growing up my whole life (27 years) in Northern California. Its been stressful and challenging but I am happy to finally not be long distance with my guy after three years of dating.

The problem? I am so bored and lonely. Granted I do have a job that keeps me busy about 37 hours of the week, but I do have three days off a week.

I am used to being at home. I had a very tight knit group of about 6 close friends and there was always something going on. Though I usually only went out with them 1-2 days a week, it was still my life. Seeing their lives still going on facebook sucks a bit, as selfish as that sounds.

My guy is great but he is a homebody. After he gets home from work he is content watching tv or playing video games until bed time. Me? I go stir crazy being in the house too long. He is not a bar person.. I'm used to my life being like Cheers and grabbing a beer after work. I know that I cannot depend on him for my source of happiness and I need to build my own life out here or I will go crazy.

He doesn't have many friends so meeting their wives or girlfriends is not really a possibility. Though he is in the military he also doesn't like going to military functions. I work in a small office and though the women are very nice, they are also all much older than i am. I know I need to join a dance studio but that is not financially in the cards for another month.

I don't know if I am ranting or looking for advice..im just sick of feeling alone.