Forum: Ballet / Pas De Deux

Learning to trust?
By isaetoilerina
On Mon May 07, 2018 08:02 AM

Hey everyone! Little dilemma here.

I am absolutely dreading our summer pas de deux sessions this year. I have only taken it one other time, in which I was dropped, squeezed to death, dragged around by guys, etc. Sounds like fun, right? Well, I have been trying to get myself pumped up for this summer, but I have an impending sense of doom whenever I think about past experiences. Those who I know that I will be partnering with are my friends and I have given them my upmost trust but however, with newcomers who I have never danced with in my life, how do I learn to trust them quickly without becoming afraid? I want to do well in this class to get over my crazy PDD trauma.

Does anyone have any tips?

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re: Learning to trust?
By Orianna13
On Mon May 07, 2018 05:01 PM
Let your teacher know that you have had bad experiences. Make sure you make it clear that you are not looking for sympathy, but that you need help in improving - that you have a fear because of a bad class or session in the past.
Also if you see your partner doing something wrong, let him/her know (obviously in a nice way). Dance is all about correction and getting better. Ask the teacher if they don't take your advice or are not sure. If they keep doing something wrong, pull the teacher aside during the end of class and let them know that your partner is doing something unsafe if they are.
But enjoy your summer classes and don't let past experiences let you down! Try not to think of the past - as hard as that can be - and think of this class as something new and exciting!

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