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By odile_odette



On Mon Apr 03, 2006 12:13 PM
Great post.
This answers a lot of questions Im sure many people are afraid to ask as they are afraid to look stupid. It will be very helpful for a lot of confused young members.
This answers a lot of questions Im sure many people are afraid to ask as they are afraid to look stupid. It will be very helpful for a lot of confused young members.

By dancerchica


On Mon Apr 03, 2006 02:47 PM
I agree, karma to you for a great post. Some of this seems pretty basic, but to a younger member, it's nice to have a "sexual summary." Thanks for posting.
~Brandy
~Brandy

By PinUpGirl




On Mon Apr 03, 2006 02:51 PM
What seems basic to some of us is sometimes not obvious to even someone our own age. My Psych of Sex professor said she had a college student ask her if you could get pregnant from kissing. Some people are so ignorant of sex, it's scary. I wanted to put out the basics for those who are too afraid to ask and to prevent repeat posts.

By ballet_irish_gal


On Mon Apr 03, 2006 03:22 PM
Sticky...me thinks this should be a sticky thread (mind the really bad pun)

By TheFlip




On Mon Apr 03, 2006 03:44 PM
Edited by irishghillietoes (79102) on 2006-04-03 15:45:34
Edited by irishghillietoes (79102) on 2006-04-03 15:45:54
Edited by irishghillietoes (79102) on 2006-04-03 15:45:54
Heyyyy PinUpGirl... great post! Thanks for putting this up; sometimes I just want to slam my head on the keyboard because there are so many repeat posts.... 

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By matty_95
By matty_95
On Fri Apr 28, 2006 01:25 PM
thank you very much for that information i couldnt speek to my parents about that stuff thanks
love matty
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love matty
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By katydancer
By katydancer
On Thu May 04, 2006 01:20 PM
Thank...but i have a question does that mean straght guys are always virgans because the diff. says that it is being penetrated my a penis????

By PinUpGirl




On Fri May 05, 2006 11:12 AM
^^If you have had penetrative sex, be you the owner of the penis or the vagina, you are not a virgin. Obviously, you didn't take the time to read the rest of my response or you would've gotten the answer to that question.

By lilmissgiggles


On Thu May 25, 2006 04:15 AM
wow i think you have said it all!!

By kazkaz

On Fri Jun 09, 2006 02:33 PM
thanks for that post. it was very helpful

By BootScootinBaby



On Mon Jun 12, 2006 08:13 PM
I think that's a pretty informative post, but the only part I don't agree with is:
That's not actually a textbook definition of sexual intercourse. Performing oral sex is not losing your virginity. Mentally, for some people, it is. Physically, it is not.
Other than that, great info!
Amy
If you go around performing oral sex every weekend, you are not a virgin.
Be you male or female, if you're sexually experienced without penetrative sex, you're not a virgin.
That's not actually a textbook definition of sexual intercourse. Performing oral sex is not losing your virginity. Mentally, for some people, it is. Physically, it is not.
Other than that, great info!
Amy

By PinUpGirl




On Wed Jun 14, 2006 11:50 AM
^The dictionary definition of virgin only applies to straight females. What does that mean for straight males, gays, and lesbians? Are they perpetually virgins because they never had their hymen broken by a penis? This is obviously problematic because males don't have hymens in the first place. I think everyone can agree that it's a ridiculously narrow minded definition.
Oral sex is still a sexual act. I also know that most would agree it's more intimate than sexual intercourse. If you're having oral sex to maintain your technical virginity, you're still not a virgin even if you have a hymen. It's logic like yours that allows people to absolve themselves of so called "bad" or "dirty" acts in the eyes of society and their chosen faith when they are decidedly NOT innocent.
Oral sex is still a sexual act. I also know that most would agree it's more intimate than sexual intercourse. If you're having oral sex to maintain your technical virginity, you're still not a virgin even if you have a hymen. It's logic like yours that allows people to absolve themselves of so called "bad" or "dirty" acts in the eyes of society and their chosen faith when they are decidedly NOT innocent.
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By dance_beth
By dance_beth
On Wed Jun 14, 2006 12:43 PM
good post, it will awnser a lot of peoples worrying questions!
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By emo_dancer15
On Mon Jul 10, 2006 11:20 PM
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By Gumby_18

On Sun Jul 23, 2006 09:16 PM
Great post. As to the "am I a virgin if I've had oral sex" question... if there is a risk of sexually transmitted disease, is that considered losing your virginity? That's what they told us in health class at least.
Gumby
Gumby

By xox_dancer09_xox


On Thu Aug 03, 2006 11:48 AM
well done for posting that!
i needed to see those answers lol karma for you !
this is a great post thank you for writting it!!!
x x x x
i needed to see those answers lol karma for you !
this is a great post thank you for writting it!!!
x x x x

By xox_dancer09_xox


On Thu Aug 03, 2006 11:49 AM
well done for posting that!
i needed to see those answers lol karma for you !
this is a great post thank you for writting it!!!
x x x x
i needed to see those answers lol karma for you !
this is a great post thank you for writting it!!!
x x x x
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By Becz_x
On Wed Aug 09, 2006 11:20 AM
Removed by Theresa (28613) on 2006-08-10 00:08:53 netspeak is against dance.net rules. You must spell out all words when posting.
Great post
im kinda new so i dont really know all about this sorta stuff but that was a great post when i said new i meant to dance.et no sex lol hehe luv ya becz_x
im kinda new so i dont really know all about this sorta stuff but that was a great post when i said new i meant to dance.et no sex lol hehe luv ya becz_x

By love_life_dance


On Sat Aug 11, 2007 05:17 AM
great post and most issues well dealt with but there are a few things i don't agree with.
i don't agree with the statement that giving oral sex makes someone not a virgin...maybe you wouldnt be mentally but in my opinion, not physically. i agree that you cant simply go by the dictionary definition, there are too many exceptions but i still think that oral sex is different from sexual intercourse and i would personally class losing virginity as having sexual intercourse - penetrative sex.
also i don't think you can completely rule out pregnancy from oral sex or handjobs/fingering. it is a very very minimal chance but the chance is there nonetheless if for example a guy has semen on his fingers and puts them inside you, or if you have it on your hands and touch yourself down there or something like that. extremely remote danger i know im just saying you shouldnt completely rule it out.
---increase the peace---
love ali xoxox
i don't agree with the statement that giving oral sex makes someone not a virgin...maybe you wouldnt be mentally but in my opinion, not physically. i agree that you cant simply go by the dictionary definition, there are too many exceptions but i still think that oral sex is different from sexual intercourse and i would personally class losing virginity as having sexual intercourse - penetrative sex.
also i don't think you can completely rule out pregnancy from oral sex or handjobs/fingering. it is a very very minimal chance but the chance is there nonetheless if for example a guy has semen on his fingers and puts them inside you, or if you have it on your hands and touch yourself down there or something like that. extremely remote danger i know im just saying you shouldnt completely rule it out.
---increase the peace---
love ali xoxox

By PinUpGirl




On Sat Aug 11, 2007 02:36 PM
A lot of people feel that if you're sexually experienced, you're not a virgin. It's an antiquated definition, anyway. Only heterosexual females can be virgins. What about straight guys? Lesbians? Gay men? Are they all virgins because they've never had their hymens broken? I think most people would agree with that. Ultimately, virginity comes down to how the person feels about themself, but under that definition, my boyfriend is still a virgin and I'm not.
Make sense?
Make sense?
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By dancerox101
By dancerox101
On Thu Oct 25, 2007 09:45 PM
another question...
what if the penis doesnt enter the vagina, but merely touches it for like 2 seconds?
what if the penis doesnt enter the vagina, but merely touches it for like 2 seconds?

By PinUpGirl




On Sat Oct 27, 2007 12:48 AM
As stated previously, an uncovered penis + an uncovered vagina could = pregnancy.
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