I take dance classes at a studio where there are only six male dancers total as of last year. I'm one of the oldest so i'm probably the one most of them will look up to for dance stuff, but i'm only in my second year dancing, and i dance in a very feminine manner. I think they all have older sisters so how are they supposed to figure out how to dance in a manly form.?

It helps to have masculine role models, but it's not strictly necessary. That's what the teacher is there for.

work together with the other guys and keep an eye open so that you each know when the other is dancing to fey...also speak to the teacher and share your concerns ...the teacher is there to help keep that in mind

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