I really don't know you that well, but it's awful what you're going through. I guess if you were'nt happy, you needed to do it.

(((HUGS)))

*massive hugs*

I know you were with him for quite a while, and he played a massive part in your (busy, from what I recall) life.

If you need anything, MSN me, PM me...anything. i'm here for you *hug*

4 years, seeing him twice a week without fail, sometimes more.

I don't even know if I made the right decision, I just don't know.

I'm devastated. He emailed my Mum thanking her for letting him be a part of the family etc and it made me so sad.

I've been crying all day, and all last night.

I'm just so confused right now, I don't know what do to.
elliebellie

First off, I'm sorry about the break up. Even if you want it, that's a lot of history to get past. It won't be easy.

It's okay to cry. It's okay to be hurt. It's okay to sit in your pajamas and eat ice cream for a few days. It's okay to put on your favorite girly movies. Just don't do it for more than a few days. You want to grieve, but you don't want to get stuck in it.

Once you've had your crying fits, keep yourself busy. Call your friends and go out. Focus on school or work, dance, or even find a new hobby. You'll have good days and you'll have bad days. Slowly the good days will outnumber the bad days. Be patient with yourself. You're going to miss him. Just know that you did the right thing in the end. I don't know the circumstances of your break up, but why be with someone if they don't make you happy? On the most basic level, isn't that why people date?

Hang in there and you'll get through it. Soon enough you'll be feeling back to your old self, it just takes time.

Just stay strong!
If your still like this in say a month maybe it was a bad idea!
Spend loads of time with the girls
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