I recently broke up with him. He was entirely selfish and had gotten to the point where he would cuss and yell at me for giving him the advice he asked for. I know he has anxiety issues in addition to him trying to transition, but I don't deserve to be treated in such a cruel manner.

I wanted to post this here because I don't want anyone to think that I'm transphobic. I'm not.

However, if a person's attitude / actions toward me are affected by their transition I am not afraid to say something about it.

But if there is anyone out there looking for advice as to how to handle being the trans-partner who does get a lot of their emotional needs ignored, I'm here to talk to. I've experienced it and have 10+ friends who have experienced the exact same thing.