How does anyone know if they are bi-curious? I have been thinking this whole time if I was or not, since I have this interest with one of my friends and this one girl back where i live. But, Im still confused. I havent told anyone that I might be bi. Only a couple of my friends who are also gay, bi and lesbian. Is this a bad thing that I have done?


Thanks so much!

If you're interested in both genders, you can consider yourself bisexual. At least that's what I think.

I knew I was bi when I wanted to date my friend. I mean, I'm not sure how else to explain it. If you have romantic/sexual feelings for both sexes, I'd consider you bisexual.

What do you mean by "is this a bad thing I have done?"?

is it a bad thing if I told my friends?

No, it's your choice on whether you tell or don't.

thanks for that. I dont know how to say this, but what are you?

I'm bisexual.

when did you know that you were bisexual?

Well,I came out when I was 13, but looking back I realized I was when I was like ten.

I now have a girlfriend but i still think that im bi curious? Can that happen?

Anything can happen.
In my view you are bisexual if you like both genders but your tastes may change over time.
Also just being curious doesn't necessarily make you bisexual....some people just want to try it to see what its all about, some people want to try it because it feels right, some people avoid it because it feels right...
There is no right or wrong with sexuality. If something makes you feel good go for it.
I would class myself as straight but I have had relationships with women and have had sexual encounters with them. Does this change who I am? No. Does anyone know? Yes various people. Am I bothered? No.

isnt if your bisexual, doesnt that mean that you have to have sex with both male and female. Have had sex with a girl but never with a guy.

sexuality isn't just about actually having sex - its about how you feel and how you regard yourself.

Im just saying thats all. My girlfriend doesnt know about this, so Im kind of nervous to tell her about it.

You are who/what you are. Don't be ashamed of it. ((Hugs))
I am sure she will be fine - after all you're not saying you want to leave her for someone else, just that you are interested in men and women.

thanks for the hug and thanks for the advice. I dont know how to say this to people but what are you?

I think the way to ask is to say what do you consider your sexuality to be?
My answer would be I am straight as I am considerably more attracted to men than what I am women.

I am a lesbian, as i am not sexually attracted to men.

Sexuality is thought to be fluid, or interchangeable.. You fall in love with a person not their sex. Thats the theory anyway.
If you are confused, maybe you should be single for a while? Then when you are comfortable with who you are you can think about being in a fulfilling relationship- wether it be with a man or woman x

I think bi-curious is just a wimp-out word. It ignores the fact that sexuality is fluid and changing, just like personality is. If you are attracted to both genders in a deep way, then bisexual would be the most appropriate term, however that doesn't mean it's the only classification or label that you can have for the rest of your life. Bi-curious seems to be not wanting to admit or own the emotions and experiences being presented.

And to answer another question, you don't have to have been with a certain gender to fit the classification: as others have said, it's about what you feel, not what you've done. There have been gay men who have never been with a man because they tried to fit the straight-man stereotype. (And every other permutation of the genders there.) Just because you haven't been sexually active or emotionally committed to a boy doesn't mean that you aren't attracted to males in general, which is part of what sexuality is about.

I honestly don't think that bicurious is a wimpout word. If people aren't sure of what there sexuality is they just say that they are bicurious. I think I am but I haven't told my girlfriend yet that I that I might be. People choose to think what they want to think. I don't see bicurious as a bad thing either. Its only bad to a person who wants to believe its a bad thing, am I correct?