If you look at an attractive guy and are like, "I'd hit that," and then see an attractive girl and also think "I'd hit that," then you are sexually attracted to both genders, and therefore bisexual.

If you're unsure, then you're unsure. For which "bi-curious" is a synonym. That's also the "Q" for "Questioning" at the end of LGBTQ.

In all fairness, yes, you should tell your girlfriend if you're questioning.

themindfreak08 wrote:

I honestly don't think that bicurious is a wimpout word. If people aren't sure of what there sexuality is they just say that they are bicurious. I think I am but I haven't told my girlfriend yet that I that I might be. People choose to think what they want to think. I don't see bicurious as a bad thing either. Its only bad to a person who wants to believe its a bad thing, am I correct?

I disagree. To me, it's similar to the idea of going out to eat and either you like the food or you don't. I don't really thing that people are unsure, I think they're afraid to commit to the things the are feeling. I never said that's a bad thing--at least I don't think I did and I don't believe it's a bad thing. However, I do believe there's something to be said for owning up to your feelings and saying something like "I've never liked a girl before, but I like a girl now. I'm not CURIOUS if I like her, I KNOW I like her." If you're sorting through your sexuality, then you're sorting through your feelings, but bi-curious seems like a false committal to me. It's like having one foot out the back door, being afraid to say it and have something change somewhere down the line. You love who you love.

Why would believing that make me a bad person? I only want to encourage people to be honest with themselves.

It doesnt make you a bad person. I told my girlfriend about this and she doesnt mind at all. She said thanks for telling me this. She told me not to keep secrets from each other. i believe what you said.

what is your sexual orientation?