hi guys so these past few years have been rough my best friend sister passed she was in seccond grade and had cancer my nana passed she was 99 but she was my world i would always joke around with her and i could go to her for anything. my dad moved out i still see him all the time but this christmas was the first christmas without him i cryed myself to sleep on chritsmas eve. and lately my brother and sister gang up on my like today i had a friend over we were walking up to my bedroom and he took my charger for my laptop and locked me in the bathroom while my friend sat there. then he punched and kick me then took my ipod and locked themselves in my sisters room with it and wouldnt give it back. they didnt even get in trouble i got introuble because i swore once.. meanwhile my brother was swearing everyo other word my mom pickes favorites and complains about my dad in front of me then laughs at me because i cry when she said that she didnt care if the kids missed them she doesnt even wanna be near him. i love my dad he was the only thing important to me after my nana died! everything is just going down hill and i cant take it anymore! :/

take a deep breath! it will get better. Is it possible that everyone else in your family is having a hard time with all these adjustments too? Perhaps your sister is very upset about her friend and your brother could be mad/upset about yoru dad moving out too?

HUGSSS!!!! I am sorry you are having a tough time. Sometimes people act out there emotions differently. Parents can say or act dumb when they are in pain. I know when my parents got divorced my dad would take us for the weekend. When we returned home my mum would ask us a bunch of questions and call his wife some not so nice words and talk down about my dad. My dad would say bad things about my mum too, but they seemed to stop and work together after a while. My advice is perhaps you need to tell your mum that whenever she says something mean about your dad it hurts you too. Just remember, their problems are not your fault! Also is there any way you can stay with your dad for a while? That might help you out too. Your mum seems to have a lot on her shoulders with watching you all and working, etc. She is under a lot of stress and stress can make people nutso!!!! I would also try to stay away from brother as well. That might be easier said than done, but he is acting out as well from your parents mess.

I hope everything goes easier for you. Remember its as hard as you make it.

Po