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Dance parents - do you like or dislike Dance Moms? en>fr fr>en
By Dream_chaserPremium member Comments: 24006, member since Thu Jul 26, 2001
On Thu Jan 12, 2012 10:52 AM

This is not a debate, I am just wondering if you do, and why. I am not a fan, being a teacher and former studio owner. Thanks.

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re: Dance parents - do you like or dislike Dance Moms? en>fr fr>en
By iheartmy2dancers Comments: 28, member since Mon Nov 14, 2011
On Sun Jan 15, 2012 03:10 PM
Me and my daughter DVR the show every week and watch it together... My daughter is 8 and currently training for her first lyrical solo for the up coming competition season. I find it a great learning experience for both of us. Obviously the show is somewhat reality but ridiculously edited! I know that if we had camaras following our studio around at competitions they could probably edit us to look a little crazy at times... So me and my daughter made a promise to tell each other if we are being a little crazy! LOL My daughter can be a bit of a perfectionist-DIVA at times so when she sees these other girls acting out and how it effects the others around her she can make a more conscious effort not to be like that. We have a little thing between us and if I see her starting to be a little out of line or disrespectful towards me or others I say "hey toddler and tiara whats your deal?" She laughs and rephrases her comments! Works great :) Other then that we watch Dance Moms for pure entertainment value!
re: Dance parents - do you like or dislike Dance Moms? en>fr fr>en
By kandykanePremium member Comments: 14869, member since Mon May 01, 2006
On Sun Jan 15, 2012 04:18 PM
Dislike. It should be about dance, not drama.

kk~
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By ooglybooglymember has saluted, click to view salute photos Comments: 39, member since Fri Jun 24, 2011
On Sun Jan 15, 2012 04:41 PM
I like the show. But its really unrealistic and the fans are the WORST! Ugh!
re: Dance parents - do you like or dislike Dance Moms? en>fr fr>en
By Dream_chaserPremium member Comments: 24006, member since Thu Jul 26, 2001
On Sun Jan 15, 2012 04:58 PM
iheartmy2dancers wrote:

Me and my daughter DVR the show every week and watch it together... My daughter is 8 and currently training for her first lyrical solo for the up coming competition season. I find it a great learning experience for both of us. Obviously the show is somewhat reality but ridiculously edited! I know that if we had camaras following our studio around at competitions they could probably edit us to look a little crazy at times... So me and my daughter made a promise to tell each other if we are being a little crazy! LOL My daughter can be a bit of a perfectionist-DIVA at times so when she sees these other girls acting out and how it effects the others around her she can make a more conscious effort not to be like that. We have a little thing between us and if I see her starting to be a little out of line or disrespectful towards me or others I say "hey toddler and tiara whats your deal?" She laughs and rephrases her comments! Works great :) Other then that we watch Dance Moms for pure entertainment value!


I like how you handle it. Not many do, the kids just watch. I think, for current dance families, it's more of a "how not to act" or "look we are NOT like that" scenario.

But I fear, for those who know nothing and want to sign up their kids, that maybe they will be turned off.
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By imadanseurPremium member Comments: 15029, member since Thu Dec 04, 2003
On Sun Jan 15, 2012 05:02 PM
Dislike. My son likes reality television, but he knows I hate seeing kids exploited and really really dislike what these shows promote and is borderline abusive to the kids (mostly from their parents.) Our deal is he can't watch this or Toddlers & Tiara nonsense with me in the house.
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By iheartmy2dancers Comments: 28, member since Mon Nov 14, 2011
On Tue Jan 17, 2012 12:04 PM
Exactly Dream Chaser! Even if it is fake, its a definate 'what not to do" or "how not to act". :)
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By Theresamember has saluted, click to view salute photosPremium member Comments: 32198, member since Wed May 22, 2002
On Tue Jan 17, 2012 12:07 PM
Never seen it. I still dislike it.

I dislike it because when I tell people that I dance, people who don't know dance but know Dance Moms, assume that that's what I do.

Nooooo!

I go so far out of my way to prove that I'm not a stage mom, that I don't even watch my sons classes. That, and he turns into the class clown when I watch. Hah!
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By tumblebugPremium member Comments: 9730, member since Fri Mar 29, 2002
On Tue Jan 17, 2012 01:00 PM
My 8 year old daughter and I enjoy watching it together. My daughter thinks Abby is an awful mean person and she gets annoyed at all the parts except the dancing. She prefers to just watch the dancing parts only. When I crack down on my students, my daughter (who is usually playing her DSi, reading, or doing homework on the sidelines) likes to say "Mom, you sound like Abby" or "Mom, you sound like Jillian" (from The Biggest Loser) LOL.

I enjoy the show. My husband hates it. If he ever walks through the room and Abby is on the tv screen he starts swearing "I can't believe you watch that s***. That woman is nothing more but a fat a** f****** b****." :O
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By Dream_chaserPremium member Comments: 24006, member since Thu Jul 26, 2001
On Tue Jan 17, 2012 01:28 PM
tumblebug wrote:

My 8 year old daughter and I enjoy watching it together. My daughter thinks Abby is an awful mean person and she gets annoyed at all the parts except the dancing. She prefers to just watch the dancing parts only. When I crack down on my students, my daughter (who is usually playing her DSi, reading, or doing homework on the sidelines) likes to say "Mom, you sound like Abby" or "Mom, you sound like Jillian" (from The Biggest Loser) LOL.

I enjoy the show. My husband hates it. If he ever walks through the room and Abby is on the tv screen he starts swearing "I can't believe you watch that s***. That woman is nothing more but a fat a** f****** b****." :O


My husband said similar, when I watched the first one. I said not to worry, I will never watch that %^&*( again.
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By mochichi Comments: 91, member since Wed Apr 29, 2009
On Fri Jan 20, 2012 12:18 PM
I enjoy watching it, but I take it for what it is. Scripted entertainment.

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