Girls & Guys My friend is mad at me and is ignoring me :( en>fr fr>en By ooglyboogly Comments: 39, member since Fri Jun 24, 2011On Sat Feb 04, 2012 04:48 PM
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I have this friend. I know her from acting. We're both pretty quirky and crazy, so I feel pretty comfortable around her and she's really sweet and talented too. She likes to joke around that her and this ten year boy are going to get married, which is a little weird sometims, but I know she's joking so I joke around too sometimes and calledl her a "Creeper". I know, it's not nice, it's kinda rude. But she never got upset, she actually laughed , sometimes. So yesterday I was talking to her on facebook. I said "hey" and she said, "Yes?" and I was like "What?" and she said she meant "What do you want?!" In a "Nice way". I asked her if there was anything going on. And she I was rude to her. And I was like "Omg I'm sorry! What did do??" and she said Im constantly telling her she's not behaving correctly and calling her a creeper. And pushing her down. I was shocked! I felt terrible! I would never purposely push someone down! I didn't know that calling her a creeper was hurting her. But at the same time why didn't she tell me this before? Why was she telling me this now? And I was talking to HER on Facebook not the other way around. It's not really fair to ignore me and then wait til I talked to her to tell me instead of being like "Hey this kinda hurt my feelings. I explained to her that I didnt know and that I thought she thought it was funny, and that I was really sorry and wouldn't say anything like that again. But now she's ignoring me. Do you think something else is going on? I feel awful, I hope she's alright  I talked to her a couple days ago in person and she was fine. Why didn't she tell then when I said it? Like "Please don't say that." Should I just give her space? I feel really bad, what do I do? 1 Replies to My friend is mad at me and is ignoring me :( |
re: My friend is mad at me and is ignoring me :( en>fr fr>en By KODancer94 Comments: 232, member since Thu Sep 22, 2011On Sun Feb 05, 2012 12:14 PM
There's probably something else going on in her life. Give her some space and time. I have a friend who does stuff like this at least once every few months. For example, she's not talking to me at this point of time. But I grew tired of it, so I decided I won't be the one to try and fix things this time. So my advice to you is to just wait. Be patient. Let her make the first move, that way you know you aren't pressuring her or pushing her or making her even more angry. |