 Girls & Guys To Date or Not To Date? en>fr fr>en By raindeerrock Comments: 20, member since Sun Nov 27, 2011On Sun Feb 05, 2012 03:01 PM
Okay this could be me or my friend, or cousin, but as a guy not knowing anything about her just seeing her, would you date her? Note: This is a headshot, but NOTHING as been edited.
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re: To Date or Not To Date? en>fr fr>en By Theresa   Comments: 32198, member since Wed May 22, 2002On Sun Feb 05, 2012 03:38 PM
Girls outnumber guys on this site like, 50 to 1, so you're not really likely to get alot of opinions from guys about this. Sorry. |
re: To Date or Not To Date? en>fr fr>en By Sumayah Comments: 4706, member since Wed Nov 12, 2008On Sun Feb 05, 2012 03:52 PM
Also, the men who are on this site tend to be men. That girl looks like she's in her early to mid teens so the answer will be primarily no. No one wants to date jailbate. Whoever she is, she looks pretty and doubtlessly will get a boyfriend at some point in her life. Some date early, some date late. There's nothing wrong with her if she doesn't have a boyfriend or if she has a boyfriend. It really doesn't matter, it'll happen when it happens. |
re: To Date or Not To Date? en>fr fr>en By Odessa   Comments: 10640, member since Wed Feb 27, 2002On Sun Feb 05, 2012 04:31 PM
She looks like Sue Heck, from The Middle.
Erin.
::righteous babe:: |
re: To Date or Not To Date? en>fr fr>en By Caffeine  Comments: 2220, member since Wed Aug 08, 2007On Sun Feb 05, 2012 05:08 PM
If this isn't you, do you have her permission to upload the photo to a highly public website?
If this is you, then you've bypassed the "salute" rules of DDN.
I echo what Sumayah said: she seems quite young, so if she's not had a date yet, then there is plenty of time. Some girls date from an early age, some wait until they are older. Both approaches to dating are equally valid, and there's no right or wrong way.
And it's awfully shallow to judge whether or not to date somebody based on looks alone... |
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en>fr fr>en By kay   Comments: 1469, member since Sun Aug 12, 2007On Sun Feb 05, 2012 08:53 PM
Oh gosh, this is the most awkward question ever  |
re: To Date or Not To Date? en>fr fr>en By AlwaysOnStage  Comments: 6625, member since Sun Apr 18, 2004On Sun Feb 05, 2012 09:46 PM
I am so uncomfortable with this post. Surely this is or should be against the tos... |
re: To Date or Not To Date? en>fr fr>en By DefyingGravity  Comments: 4839, member since Sun Jan 19, 2003On Mon Feb 06, 2012 02:30 AM
I'm hoping this is a picture of you, because otherwise I'm totally creeped out that you'd post some random person's photo on a public message board.
No, I wouldn't date that girl, because a) I'm a straight female b) I don't want to be arrested for pedophilia.
I don't think you're going to get the gossipy, pick out all the flaws or revel in the compliments you thought you were going to get. |
re: To Date or Not To Date? en>fr fr>en By schuhplattler  Comments: 2209, member since Sat Dec 23, 2006On Mon Feb 06, 2012 02:57 AM
Were I of the proper age for that girl, I would answer with an unqualified maybe. I would be a fool to date by sight alone. |
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en>fr fr>en By oz_helen   Comments: 10709, member since Sat Aug 10, 2002On Mon Feb 06, 2012 03:31 AM
No, I prefer redheads.
Helen |
re: To Date or Not To Date? en>fr fr>en By HollieErin Comments: 3351, member since Tue Feb 19, 2002On Mon Feb 06, 2012 06:24 PM
The fact that (I assume) you don't have testicles, sways me to the negative.
My fiance says you're too young for him. |
re: To Date or Not To Date? en>fr fr>en By YumYumDoughnut  Comments: 6531, member since Sat Jul 10, 2004On Mon Feb 06, 2012 06:27 PM
I am a straight female so I can't answer as a guy.
The girl has a very pleasant smile and has nice hair. I don't know anything about her personality to see if she would be worth dating. She also seems a bit young to be dating, but that is my opinion. |
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en>fr fr>en By Trout Comments: 796, member since Mon Nov 08, 2010On Mon Feb 06, 2012 07:40 PM
So this is a photo of you, and you want us to tell you that you're pretty and that YEAH people would date you?
People don't date each other based on looks alone (and if they do, it's a very unhealthy relationship).
You are a pretty girl, but you look so young. Also, making a post like this shows that you're not mature enough to start dating yet. You've got your whole life ahead of you, enjoy being young now. |
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en>fr fr>en By Cadbury_Eater   Comments: 7187, member since Sun Jan 05, 2003On Fri Feb 10, 2012 05:12 AM
I don't really know how to respond to this post.
Firstly, I saw that other factors like personality are pretty important.
She seems quite young looking? So ummm I hope you're her age hah
As a straight girl, I wouldn't be able to tell you if I'd date her. However she is quite pretty; pretty long blonde hair and glowing skin.
But I have a sneaking suspicion this might be you fishing for compliments or for a friend. In any case, you look too young for dating and your esteem should not be based on male regard of you. |
re: To Date or Not To Date? en>fr fr>en By dancin_til_death Comments: 4204, member since Sat May 08, 2004On Sun Mar 11, 2012 11:02 PM
I'd tell her I didn't start dating until I was 20, and I didn't meet anyone decent until I was 21.
Instead I had absolutely amazing close friends, who know me better then I know myself. |
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en>fr fr>en By Moonlitefairy06  Comments: 6233, member since Fri Apr 16, 2004On Sun Mar 11, 2012 11:25 PM
Edited by Moonlitefairy06 (90715) on 2012-03-11 23:27:02 old post
Edited by Moonlitefairy06 (90715) on 2012-03-11 23:30:32
Like Dancin, I never dated a guy at all until I was 16 (only a few months), and at 24 I have not been in a long term relationship, just some random dates here and there. A friend of mine who is also a DDN member recently told me that I have a very healthy perspective when it comes to relationships. When it happens, it will happen and it will happen when I am ready. There is plenty of time for all of that later in your life. I wouldn't guess you to be older than 14. Enjoy your friends both girls and guys. Enjoy dancing or any other activities you do. Work hard in school so you can get into a good college. Don't worry about things like boyfriends and prom dates (if you are even that old to be graduating high school soon). It is a very nice picture, you look happy in it. But this post screams of low self esteem. You need to love yourself before you can expect someone to love you. And also remember that boys at your age are generally going to be more immature than girls. It's just how it is. The boys will catch up later, don't waste your time obsessing over them now. Honestly, don't even let things like dating bother you right now. I wish I didn't when I was younger. There is plenty of time for that in college and even more time when you are not a student at all anymore (no more homework to keep you from going out, and this is coming from a current graduate student). Enjoy your youth, you only get it once. You have a whole life ahead of you to go on dates with boys.
Edited To Add: I didn't realize this post originated a month ago and has been reborn. Sorry. |